考慮(lǜ)一千次，不如去做一次！
猶豫一萬次 ，不如實(shí)踐(jiàn)一次！
華(huá)麗的跌倒，勝過(guò)無謂的徘徊！
據(jù)哈佛大學研究 ：一個(gè)人沒出息一定有以下這九大根源 。
一、猶豫不決
Indecision
比魯(lǔ)莽更糟糕的是猶豫不決(jué)。
What is worse than recklessness is hesitation.
像牆頭草一樣搖擺(bǎi)不定的人 ，無論其他方面多麽強大，在生命的競賽中總是容易被那些堅定地人擠到一邊(biān) 。雷厲風行難免會犯錯，但比什麽也不敢做強。懷特·黑德說 ：“畏懼錯誤就是毀滅進步。”
Those who sways with every wind are just like the grass on the top of a wall, no matter how powerful , are always easy to be defeated by those who has a strong belief. Act vigorously and resolutely will inevitably make mistakes, however, is better than doing nothing. "The fear of error is the destruction of progress," said Whitehead.
二、拖延
Procrastination
很多時(shí)候拖延就是逃避問題和懶(lǎn)惰。
Most of the time procrastination is to escape from a problem and laziness.
著名思想家羅曼·羅蘭說：“懶惰是很奇怪的東(dōng)西，它讓你以爲那是安逸，是休息 ，是福氣；但實際上它所給(gěi)你的是無聊 ，是倦怠，是消沉。”
The famous thinker - Romain Rolland said “Laziness is a strange thing, it makes you feel that your situation is comfort, is a rest, is a blessing; but in fact it is boring, tired, depressed.”
三、三分鍾熱度
Brief period of enthusiasm
世界上有80%的失敗(bài)都源於(yú)半途而廢。
80% of the failure is due to give up halfway in the world.
幾乎所有的人都有過(guò)“雄心勃勃地制定計劃(huà)，心灰意冷地放棄計劃(huà)”的經曆。
Most of people had the experience of making plans ambitiously, and then had to give up in despair.
四 、害怕拒絕
Fear of rejection
厚重而脆弱的自尊。
Heavy and fragile self-esteem.
大多數時候，我們在人際(jì)關(guān)系中感受到的“痛”，都和“感到被拒絕”有關(guān)。
Most of the time, the pain that we go through in our interpersonal relationships is always in connection with "you think you were rejected".
五、自我設限
Self-handicapping
殺死自己的潛能力 。
Kill your latent ability.
拉羅(luó)什富科說 ：平庸的人總是在抱怨自己不懂的東(dōng)西。
La Rochefoucauld said: mediocre people are always complaining about things they do not understand.
六、逃避現實
Escape from reality
逃避現實者更願意營造一個(gè)屬於(yú)自己的小世界。
Escapists prefer to create their own little world.
人的悲劇在於眼高手低。
People's tragedy is they have a great ambition but puny ability.
七、總找借口
Excuses
錯不在我。
It is not my fault .
人一旦犯瞭(le)錯，第一反應常常是自我辯(biàn)護。
Once people made a mistake, the first reaction is often self defense.
八、恐懼
Fear
謹小慎微的且懦弱。
Timid and cowardly.
九、拒絕學習
Refuse to learn
你不是寂寞，隻是不想學(xué)習(xí)。
You are not lonely, just don't want to learn.
